| Location | Aberuthven |
| Age | 17 years |
| Date of Birth | 4/1988 |
| Date of Death | 12/2005 |
| Visitors | 5,121 since 30/10/2006 |
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This site was set up initially by Jennifer Paul, a good friend to Terry, and a great support to me
and the boys. Thanks Jenny, its greatly appreciated.
Terry died on 5th December 2005 in a tragic car accident aged 17 yrs. He was full of mischief,
funny, and loved by all the girls and he was never in!!! He was always out with his mates, (Boys
and Girls!) he had loads of them. He also had a way with all his mates mums as well, just a lovable
rogue.
He was an apprentice spraypainter with Donald Kirk Ltd, Perth. He loved his job and most of his
workmates.
He was a son that always made me laugh and was like my best friend. He could talk to me about
anything. How I miss those wee chats we had when he came in at nights once the wee 1's were in
bed.
He was the best big brother to Scott, Robert and Charlie. Charlie is like a mini Terry mind you, he
followed Terry everywhere , even although there was 13 yrs between them.
He is missed by everyone and we still hear stories about him and what he was up to, nearly a year
later!!! He certainly lived life to the full and his mates and family still keep his memory alive.
RIP Terry, there will never be another son like you. Special, thats what you were, and god
seemingly takes the special ones. Love you forever, will see you when its my time!!! Love Mum.
xxxx
A poem I received from Brenda Marshall, one of Terry's Bitches, mum:
ALWAYS IN OUR HEARTS
A place in our Hearts
You'll Always Stay
An ENORMOUS Hurt That
Just.....Won't Go Away
We Hope In Time
We Find It Easier
To Think Of You
And Feel A Lot Less Pain
You Brought Us Fun
When We Were Glum
You Charmed The Mums
Now That Ain't Bad For One So Young
Your Death Knocked Our Lives
Right To The Core
So Sad We Won't Be
Seeing You No More.
RIP Terry J Inkster
26/04/88 - 05/12/05
Read at Kierans Funeral
Miss Me But Let Me Go
When I come to the end of the road
And the sun has set for me,
I want no tears in a gloom-filled room,
Why cry for a soul set free?
Miss me a little – But not for long
And not with your head bowed low,
Remember the love that we once shared,
Miss me – But let me go.
For this is a journey we all must take,
And each must go alone,
It’s all a part of the Master’s plan
A step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick of heart
Go to your friends that we know,
And bury your sorrows in doing good works,
Miss me – But let me go.
Perhaps if we could see the splendour of the land
To which our loved ones are called from you and me,
We’d understand
Perhaps if we could hear the welcome they receive
From old familiar voices all so dear
We would not grieve.
Perhaps if we could know the reason why they went
We’d smile and wipe away the tears that flow
We’d wait content
Miss me – But let me go
Candles in the Night
Candles flame in darkness,
Flicker, steadily glow,
Bringing light from shadows
And help to soothe me so.
My son, like the candles,
Gave my life true light,
I use the candle's beacon
To connect us in the night.
As I light the candles,
My wish and my request
Is that he'll see my signal
And know my love's expressed.
As his light joins my lights,
Our worlds touch and flame.
As I snuff out the candles,
I softly say his name.
By Genesse Bourdeau Gentry
Missing You
Can't believe another year has passed since we last saw you. Robert, Charlie and Lee are following in your footsteps - although not quite as bad as you yet ! Ha Ha. We have been watching old video footage of you when you were about 3 and you were a bossy wee bugger even then ! Telling Emma what to do - and she did it aswell !! We all miss you and talk of you often. Granny retires this year and I remember when we were all together at Papa's retirement. Miss you Terry. Love from Auntie Jackie xxx
Thinking of you.XXX
The Four Candles
The four candles burned slowly
Their ambiance was so soft you
Could hear them speak.......
The first candle said “I am peace, but these days, no one wants to keep me lit.”
Then peace’s flame slowly diminishes and goes out completely.
The second candle said “I am Faith, but these days, I am no longer indispensable.”
Then Faith’s flame slowly diminishes and goes out completely.
Sadly the third candle spoke “I am Love and I haven’t the strength to stay lit any longer.” “People put me aside and don’t understand my importance. They even forget to love those who are nearest to them.”
And waiting no longer, Love goes out completely.
Suddenly........
A child enters the room and sees the three candles no longer burning.
The child begins to cry, “Why are you not burning? You are supposed to stay lit until the end.”
Then the fourth candle spoke gently to the little boy, “Don’t be afraid, for I am Hope, and while I still burn, we can re-light the other candles.”
With shining eyes the child took the candle of Hope and lit the other three candles.
Never let the Flame of Hope go out in your life.
Thinking of you.XXX
Next to you
You cannot see or touch me
But I'm standing next to you.
Your tears will only hurt me,
Your sadness makes me blue.
Be brave and show a smiling face
Let not your grief show through.
I love you from a different place,
Yet I'm standing next to you.
HAPPY 21ST BIRTHDAY TEZ.
Its hard to imagine that you would be 21 now Terry. Hope you have luvely day wherever you are, bet you will be at the house with us. Scott, Robert & Charlie all growing so fast. Luv and miss you son. Luv Mum, Scott, Robert & Charlie. xxxxxxxxx
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Sometimes life's most precious things,
Slip too quickly from our hands,
Snowflakes, rainbows, childhood,
Castles in the sand.
God gave us a special spot,
to preserve them in our hearts,
A forever place where all we love,
lingers when we part.
Fireflies and autumn leaves,
Roses, kittens, dreams,
Icicles, sunrise, spider webs,
Mornings dew, moon beams.
Butterflies and baby birds,
Flowers that bloom in spring,
Perhaps in life God's greatest gifts,
Are blessed by Him with wings.
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Life is Hard Without you
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Missing you more with each new day
and trying to be brave...
Thinking of our happy times
and all the love you gave...
Feeling very grateful
for the dreams we saw come true,
For every lovely thing we shared
and, most of all, for you...
Treasuring each memory
that keeps you ever near...
Remembering familiar things
and wishing you were here.
Life's very hard without you
but that is the price to pay
For all the shared and precious times
grief cannot take away.
Dear Son although you're gone
The memories are so dear,
And there are so many thoughts of you
At this special time of year.
Thoughts of all the joy you brought
The smiles and laughter too,
And words cannot express the pain
That is felt at losing you.
Since the day that you were taken
Life has never been the same,
And so many hearts are missing you
As Christmas comes again.
Hi Tez, sorry not been on this for ages, think about you every minute of every day. Had bad few weeks but getting motivated now. Your bros are always talking about you even your wee cuz Lee talked about you last night when he was here. Miss you so much babe and hope you are looking down on us all. Sending you up a big kiss and wish i could wrap my arms around you darling. Luv Mum, Scott, Robert and Charlie xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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