| Location | Aberuthven |
| Age | 17 years |
| Date of Birth | 4/1988 |
| Date of Death | 12/2005 |
| Visitors | 5,137 since 30/10/2006 |
| Creator |
This site was set up initially by Jennifer Paul, a good friend to Terry, and a great support to me
and the boys. Thanks Jenny, its greatly appreciated.
Terry died on 5th December 2005 in a tragic car accident aged 17 yrs. He was full of mischief,
funny, and loved by all the girls and he was never in!!! He was always out with his mates, (Boys
and Girls!) he had loads of them. He also had a way with all his mates mums as well, just a lovable
rogue.
He was an apprentice spraypainter with Donald Kirk Ltd, Perth. He loved his job and most of his
workmates.
He was a son that always made me laugh and was like my best friend. He could talk to me about
anything. How I miss those wee chats we had when he came in at nights once the wee 1's were in
bed.
He was the best big brother to Scott, Robert and Charlie. Charlie is like a mini Terry mind you, he
followed Terry everywhere , even although there was 13 yrs between them.
He is missed by everyone and we still hear stories about him and what he was up to, nearly a year
later!!! He certainly lived life to the full and his mates and family still keep his memory alive.
RIP Terry, there will never be another son like you. Special, thats what you were, and god
seemingly takes the special ones. Love you forever, will see you when its my time!!! Love Mum.
xxxx
A poem I received from Brenda Marshall, one of Terry's Bitches, mum:
ALWAYS IN OUR HEARTS
A place in our Hearts
You'll Always Stay
An ENORMOUS Hurt That
Just.....Won't Go Away
We Hope In Time
We Find It Easier
To Think Of You
And Feel A Lot Less Pain
You Brought Us Fun
When We Were Glum
You Charmed The Mums
Now That Ain't Bad For One So Young
Your Death Knocked Our Lives
Right To The Core
So Sad We Won't Be
Seeing You No More.
RIP Terry J Inkster
26/04/88 - 05/12/05
hey Terry! hope ur doin good!! was down seeing ur mother tonight and those wee brothers of urs!! they were fighting and screamin as usual haha!! was good to see ur mum, shes doin well as ul know. We got total freaked out tonight though as we were lookin thru photos and saw images of aboy in 2 of them through a window. was so weird. she phoned every1 to tell them and they saw it too!glad ur lookin after her and the boys!! I know ur stil watchin over us all!! missin u just as much as always!!
Love Always xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
♥ღ♥ Gone Only To Others by Ann Holloway ♥ღ♥
Others, who do not know,
Tiptoe around your name
Unaware that your name is silently
Written on my heart, my soul, my life
And inwardly I cry out to hear it spoken.
Others who do not know
Think of you as only in the past
And believe
That you only exist in my past too
Not understanding that you are
Past, Present, Future.
Others, who do not know,
Feel you as gone,
And fail to see the reality of you
Never being ‘truly’ gone from me.
The empty void of your absence
Is filled with your presence,
Your life will forever weave through mine
The divine bond cannot be severed.
Others who do not know,
Mistakenly may think that my love has been
Weakened by separation,
Feelings ceased,
Not so.
Entwined and strengthened
My love for you lives on
And has not died with death.
But you know all this,
If only others knew.
Thinking of you on Mothers Day.XXX
God bless the grieving mother...
In January as the snow flakes fall...
And as a new year dawns...
For her memories will comfort her...
Through winter, spring, summer, and fall.
God bless the grieving mother...
In February during the month of love...
She sends her hugs..on the wings of a dove...
And her kisses are blown to the moon above.
God bless the grieving mother...
In March and on St Patricks Day...
A beautiful rainbow...a symbol of hope...
Which colours her world..in a magical way.
God bless the grieving mother...
On Easter In April as she stops to pray...
Thanking God for the gift of everlasting life...
Knowing she will be reunited someday.
God bless the grieving mother...
On Mothers Day and thru the month of May...
Whose memories are like threads of gold...
For they will never tarnish....or go away.
God bless the Grieving mother...
In June as her tears fall like the rain...
Please comfort her...and give her strength
and peaceful days to help ease the pain.
God bless the grieving mother...
In July as the fireworks light up the sky afar...
Just like her memories light up her heart...
And she wishes upon an evening star.
God bless the grieving mother...
In August...as the sun shines through...
Who's life moves on...thru ups and downs..
Whose heart is so tender and true.
God bless the grieving mother...
In September as the leaves turn and fall...
Her childs life forever etched in her heart..
Her childs name entered on the memorial wall.
God bless the grieving mother...
In October...with the harvest colours all around....
Please guide her on her journey of grief...
and keep her safe and sound.
God bless the grieving mother...
In November...a time to give thanks and pray...
Who is so thankful for each precious memory..
But wishes with all her heart...just for one more day
God bless the grieving mother...
In December as Christmas nears...
Please bless her with the gift of peace...
And many great friends to help dry her tears.
God bless the grieving mother...
Each day throughout the year...
As seasons come and go...
And time unfolds...
Day by day...
Month by month...
Year by year...
and especially today...on this Mother's day.
You've touched my heart,
You've helped me through,
My pain and sorrow,
which weren't too few.
You shared my smiles,
and my tears.
You were always there,
to squelch my fears.
To you my friend and confidant,
I give my heart of love,
My smiles of laughter,
and the hope that,
We will remain friends,
forever and after.
awrite pal just a wee message to say im missing you loads and your always in my thoughts. old firm games coming up soon too bud. i will be down to see your mum this time, been feeling a bit guilty cause i havnt seen her in ages.
missing you terry x
we shall not be moved;)
If I could catch a rainbow
I would do it just for you
And share with you its beauty
On the days you're feeling blue.
If I could build a mountain
You could call your very own
A place to find serenity
A place to be alone.
If I could take your troubles
I would toss them in the sea
But all these things I'm finding
Are impossible for me.
I cannot build a mountain
Or catch a rainbow fair
But let me be what I know best:
A friend that's always there
Not Forgotten
I wanted to pop by today
to share with you my prayer,
of the thanks I give for the memories
that are placed within my care.
For now you're safe inside my mind,
locked in with a special key
and it takes but the fondest thought
and your face is there to see.
When it comes to you that isn't hard,
I think of you so often
and no matter where I am or go
to me you're not forgotten.
Thought U Were up 2 Yr Tricks!!!!
Well Terry got the biggest fright ever on Thursday night!! Went through to check on the wee 1's in bed as I heard somebody moving about in the room. Robert was lying under his duvet on top bunk laughing and I thought whats he laughing at he should be sleeping, then i looked at poor Charlie!!! Robert had stuck little stickers all over his face and eyes and Charlie was fast asleep wi his thumb in his mouth oblivious to what Robert had done. Well I couldn't stop laughing and then Scott came through to see what I was laughing at and he said to me mum thought Terry wasn't here anymore, think he is working through Robert now wi all his jokes. Well son think you are putting Robert up to all these tricks as thats the sort of thing you did to your pals ie shaving their eyebrows!!! lol. Anyway you will never be forgotten as you got up to so much mischief there's always stories to tell about you. Think I'm gonna write a book about your life as it was so full of fun. We miss you Tez and love you forever babe. Love Mum, Scott, Robert & Charlie. xxxx
Terry
Hey Terry, missin you so much! been thinkin about u loads the past couple of months. i hate comin on this site cos it sets me off every time!! ur probably laughin at me for bein such a softy! anyway take care of my favourite aunty - she's one in a million! and see if u can calm ur wee brothers down a bit to give her a break.... like that'll happen! anyway, love you loads n miss u always! love Emma xxxxxxxxxxxx
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