| Location | Aberuthven |
| Age | 17 years |
| Date of Birth | 4/1988 |
| Date of Death | 12/2005 |
| Visitors | 5,138 since 30/10/2006 |
| Creator |
This site was set up initially by Jennifer Paul, a good friend to Terry, and a great support to me
and the boys. Thanks Jenny, its greatly appreciated.
Terry died on 5th December 2005 in a tragic car accident aged 17 yrs. He was full of mischief,
funny, and loved by all the girls and he was never in!!! He was always out with his mates, (Boys
and Girls!) he had loads of them. He also had a way with all his mates mums as well, just a lovable
rogue.
He was an apprentice spraypainter with Donald Kirk Ltd, Perth. He loved his job and most of his
workmates.
He was a son that always made me laugh and was like my best friend. He could talk to me about
anything. How I miss those wee chats we had when he came in at nights once the wee 1's were in
bed.
He was the best big brother to Scott, Robert and Charlie. Charlie is like a mini Terry mind you, he
followed Terry everywhere , even although there was 13 yrs between them.
He is missed by everyone and we still hear stories about him and what he was up to, nearly a year
later!!! He certainly lived life to the full and his mates and family still keep his memory alive.
RIP Terry, there will never be another son like you. Special, thats what you were, and god
seemingly takes the special ones. Love you forever, will see you when its my time!!! Love Mum.
xxxx
A poem I received from Brenda Marshall, one of Terry's Bitches, mum:
ALWAYS IN OUR HEARTS
A place in our Hearts
You'll Always Stay
An ENORMOUS Hurt That
Just.....Won't Go Away
We Hope In Time
We Find It Easier
To Think Of You
And Feel A Lot Less Pain
You Brought Us Fun
When We Were Glum
You Charmed The Mums
Now That Ain't Bad For One So Young
Your Death Knocked Our Lives
Right To The Core
So Sad We Won't Be
Seeing You No More.
RIP Terry J Inkster
26/04/88 - 05/12/05
hi hunni im back
hi tina,
just got back from swansea, thank you for the lovely candles on our carls site.
just want to let you know that i will be thinking of you all on wednesday, nothing i can say will ever make things better for you all. wish i could take your pain away for you all.
the break has done me good, but then i get home and i think shit, it really is true that carl has gone, sounds daft but when im away i get it in me head that our carl will be waiting for me when i get home, and then i just feel down again. i know you know what i mean.
hope all ok with you and the hospital, take care love and i will email you soon.
love always dawn. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
It only seems like yesterday
Hi Terry - can't believe it is nearly 2 years since you had your accident. Now Emma is driving that road every day and I keep nagging her to slow down - especially in the rain. Please have a word with her !! Love and miss you xxxxxx
A Kiss
We never stop to measure
Anything we might just miss
But if the wind should blow by softly
You'll feel an Angels Kiss
A Kiss thats sent from Heaven
A Kiss from up above
A Kiss thats very special
From someone that you love
For in your pain and sorrow
A Kiss will help you through
This Kiss is very private
For its meant for only you
So when our hearts are heavy
And filled with tears and pain
And no-one can console you
Remember once again
About the ones you grieve for
Because you sadly miss
And that gentle breeze you took for granted
Was just an Angels Kiss x
When I must leave you for a while,
please do not grieve and shed wild tears
and hug your sorrow to you through the years.
But start out bravely with a gallant smile;
and for my sake and in my name live on
and do all things the same.
Feed not your loneliness on empty days,
but fill each waking hour in useful ways.
Reach out your hand in comfort and in cheer
and I in turn will comfort you and hold you near.
Never, never be afraid to die,
for I am waiting for you in the sky!
a friend
God gives us all a little time
That time goes by so fast
We're told its only borrowed
We know that it wont last
And then before we know it
A lifetime has unfurled
Then he takes us back again
To another world
But God is never selfish
He nurses us with love
Until the day we meet again
In his garden up above
nite tina, not too well today hun got bad throat. xxx
Hi Tez,
Been thinking about u alot today!! they say it gets easier over time, but it doesnt! my heart stil aches for u as if it was yesterday! the memories wil always be with us all! and we'l never forget u, u were definitey one in a million!!
hi tina,
thank you so very much for leaving a message on carls site. nah brenda didnt mention that you were going into hospital soon. i hope all is okay with you hun, maybe she felt like she was telling tales. she told me that she met you thru your sis on ebay, its such a small world isnt it. i just hope that real soon you can bring yourself to come back on the site i miss you, but we all need time out, and esp with you going into hospital, plus working and the kids you have very little time of your own anyway.
i do hope all goes ok with your op, i may be seeing bren again next wk as my bloke working in liverpool from monday if he can get off the shetland islands, he stuck there at the mo and not very happy.
take care pal.
love dawn. xxxxxxxxxxx
thinking of you xxxx
GOD,
*.*.*.OPENED
* ...*.*. THE WINDOWS
* * .* *.*.*.* OF HEAVEN.
.*) .*) *.*.*LOOKED AT ME
. (... *.*.*.**.*.*.*AND ASKED,
..*(...) .*.*.*.*.* **.*. *WHAT IS YOUR
* ....(...) * . * . * .* *PRAYER
* .*.. *....* (...) * .*FOR
.. *..(...). *....* .*TODAY?
.* ... *.... * *. * . * .**I
. * . * . . * . *.*. * . **ANSWERED:
__00000___00000 *.*. * .* .*GOD
_0000000_0000000. * . * .*TAKE
_0000 OOOO 00000. * . * .*CARE
__0000000000000 * . ** .*OF THE
___00000000000 * . *. * . * .*PERSON
_____0000000 * . *. * . ** *.*THAT
_______000 * . *. * * * .*.*IS
________0* . * .. ** .. * .*.*READING
. * .. ** .. * . * . * .* . *.*THIS
. * . (.. *** /) * .*.*MESSAGE
* . * ( ..(_)/ ) * * .BECAUSE
* . * (_ /|.. _) . **.* THIS PERSON IS
* . * . /___.. * . .* .*SO
. * * . * . * *SPECIAL
ive been on me travels again.
hiya tina,
well i met an aquaintence of yours in liverpool on wednesday. yep you got it brenda. we had a good chat over lunch and a bloody good laugh, something that i needed.
she has been on about coming up to see you, (she's bloody mad) in the nicest possible way. lol
anyway i hope you doing alright, i know you not coming on the site alot at the mo, i think every now and then we need to take time out from this, i know i do. sometimes i get so upset reading other peoples stories, it hurts too much to return.
i also met philip campbells mum, nan, and sister on thursday, they also from liverpool, its funny how death brings us all close together,
anyway you take good care of yourself, and if ever you want to talk just email me. i may be here i may not, lol. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
For you Tina.XXX
MY PHOTO ALBUM
The photo album of my mind
Holds treasured thoughts of you,
And I can almost see again
The things we used to do.
I hear your voice; I see your smile;
I feel you close to me.
The photo album of my mind
Shows how we used to be.
Time may have changed us through the years.
But I will always find
You’re just as I remember in
The album of my mind.
And, as I turn page after page,
Such precious scenes I see.
The photo album of my mind
Is very dear to me.
It holds the pictures of our past
Like reels of film unwind.
I cherish all those photos in
The album of my mind.
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