| Location | Aberuthven |
| Age | 17 years |
| Date of Birth | 4/1988 |
| Date of Death | 12/2005 |
| Visitors | 5,137 since 30/10/2006 |
| Creator |
This site was set up initially by Jennifer Paul, a good friend to Terry, and a great support to me
and the boys. Thanks Jenny, its greatly appreciated.
Terry died on 5th December 2005 in a tragic car accident aged 17 yrs. He was full of mischief,
funny, and loved by all the girls and he was never in!!! He was always out with his mates, (Boys
and Girls!) he had loads of them. He also had a way with all his mates mums as well, just a lovable
rogue.
He was an apprentice spraypainter with Donald Kirk Ltd, Perth. He loved his job and most of his
workmates.
He was a son that always made me laugh and was like my best friend. He could talk to me about
anything. How I miss those wee chats we had when he came in at nights once the wee 1's were in
bed.
He was the best big brother to Scott, Robert and Charlie. Charlie is like a mini Terry mind you, he
followed Terry everywhere , even although there was 13 yrs between them.
He is missed by everyone and we still hear stories about him and what he was up to, nearly a year
later!!! He certainly lived life to the full and his mates and family still keep his memory alive.
RIP Terry, there will never be another son like you. Special, thats what you were, and god
seemingly takes the special ones. Love you forever, will see you when its my time!!! Love Mum.
xxxx
A poem I received from Brenda Marshall, one of Terry's Bitches, mum:
ALWAYS IN OUR HEARTS
A place in our Hearts
You'll Always Stay
An ENORMOUS Hurt That
Just.....Won't Go Away
We Hope In Time
We Find It Easier
To Think Of You
And Feel A Lot Less Pain
You Brought Us Fun
When We Were Glum
You Charmed The Mums
Now That Ain't Bad For One So Young
Your Death Knocked Our Lives
Right To The Core
So Sad We Won't Be
Seeing You No More.
RIP Terry J Inkster
26/04/88 - 05/12/05
I Believe
I believe in Miracles
And dreams that will come true,
And I believe in happiness,
And friendship, through and through.
I believe that when you cry,
Your tears are not in vain,
And when you're sad and lonely,
Someone knows your pain.
I believe that when you laugh,
A sparkle starts to shine,
And before you know it sparks will spread,
From more hearts than just thine.
I believe the gifts you have,
Are there for you to share,
And when you give them from the heart,
The whole world knows you care.
I believe that if you give,
Even just to one,
That gift will grow in magnitude,
Before the day is done.
I believe that Love is still,
The greatest gift of all,
And when it's given from the heart,
It will conquer all.
The story of the Four Candles.
The Four Candles burned slowly.
Their ambiance was so soft you could hear them speak...
The first candle said, 'I Am Peace, but these days, nobody wants to keep me lit.'
Then Peace's flame slowly diminished and went out completely.
The second candle said, 'I Am Faith, but these days, I am no longer indispensable.'
Then Faith's flame slowly diminished and went out completely.
Sadly the third candle spoke, 'I Am Love and I haven't the strength to stay lit any longer.'
'People put me aside and don't understand my importance.
They even forget to love those who are nearest to them.'
And waiting no longer, Love went out completely.
Suddenly...
A child entered the room and saw the three candles no longer burning.
The child began to cry,
'Why are you not burning? You are supposed to stay lit until the end.'
Then the Fourth Candle spoke gently to the little boy,
'Don't be afraid, for I Am Hope, and while I still burn,
we can re-light the other candles.'
With shining eyes, the child took the Candle of Hope
and lit the other three candles.
Never let the Flame of Hope go out.
With Hope in your life, no matter how bad things may be,
Peace, Faith and Love may shine brightly once again.
Author Unknown
When you lose someone you love
The hurt is hard to bare
But when you lose a son like mine
The hurt is always there
Your smile has gone forever
Your hand I cannot touch
I will never lose the memory
Of the son I loved so much
hi tez,
sos i not been coming on lately, but not coming to terms with things, find it hard to believe that there is a heaven. wish i could believe it but at this moment in time i cant sorry. i do think of you and where ever you are im sure you are all happy. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx love sent always dawn. xxxxxxxxxxx
hi tina,
im fine mate just finding it hard to know what to think lately, think 18 months on im now starting to grieve and it not agreeing with me. now on tabs from doc and a bit spaced out also going to see a counceller in oct they cant mend a broken heart but i will give it a go. love sent always and thank u so very much for going on our carls site it means so very much. cheers pal. xxxxxxxxx
How quickly can you miss someone
A week,an hour,a day,
We started missing you Terry
The minute you went away.
We try to come to terms with it
And accept that you have gone,
But without you life is not the same
It's such a struggle to go on.
We think God must have looked down
And seen how good you were
And he needed a special angel
To lend a hand up there.
It's the only thing we can think of
What other reason could there be?
We just wish He'd send you home
And from this heartbreak we'd be free.
lots of love.xx
a thousand words wont bring you back
we know because we've tried
neither will a million tears,
we know because we've cried
you left behind some broken hearts
happy memories too,
but we never wanted memories
we only wanted you.xxx
Hi Terry - went to the library tonight with Lee and met Jayne the Librarian who has not seen Lee since he was a baby. She took one look at Lee and said he was your double !! MMMMM well yes in more ways than one but you will know what I mean. Love and miss you XXXXXXX
Well terry, i finally passed thee driving test!! Ur mum thinks its cos it was on the 5th!!! i think thats why too... how else would i have managed to pass and get only 1 minor!!!! Thanks for ur help, know ur always watchin over us!! :) Still missin u more than ever and thers not a day that goes by when i dont think about u!! take care of ur mum and brothers!!
All my love, Always and forever!!
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
With You Always
As The Sun Came Up This Morning
I Watched You There Below
Your Hearts Seemed Oh So Heavy
But There’s Something You Should Know
I’m Not Gone Don’t Worry
I’m Just A Step Ahead
And I’m With You Every Single Day
As You Rise Up From Your Bed
I Am The Sun That Warms You
I Am The Moon’s Soft Glow
I Am The Stars That Twinkle
And Light Your Path Below
So When At Times You Miss Me
Just Look For Me I’m There
For You Cannot Hide My Spirit
It Is With You Everywhere
Author - Margie Martinez
Perhaps
Perhaps, if we could see
The splendour of the land
To which our loved are called from you and me
We'd understand.
Perhaps, if we could hear
The welcome they receive
From old familiar voices-all so dear-
We would not grieve.
Perhaps, if we could know
The reason why they went
We'd smile- and wipe away the tears that flow
And wait content.
Anon
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